If you’ve ever woken up drenched in sweat at 3 a.m. wondering if you accidentally swallowed a hot water bottle, or if your sleep has recently turned into a patchy, restless mess—welcome to the (not-so-secret) club. Menopause isn’t just about periods stopping. It’s a full-body experience. And while every woman’s journey is unique, there are some common symptoms that show up again and again. Let’s unpack the big three: hot flashes, night sweats, and sleep disturbances. ⸻ 1. Hot Flashes – The Internal Fire Drill Hot flashes are perhaps the best-known menopause symptom—and for good reason. They strike without warning, turning you from composed to flushed-and-dripping in seconds. They usually: • Start in the chest or face • Rush up through your upper body • Are often paired with sweating, palpitations, or that prickly heat sensation They can show up day or night and vary in intensity—from “this is annoying” to “I need a cold shower and a fan immediately.” The culprit? Declining estrogen throws your internal thermostat (the hypothalamus) into confusion. It overreacts to small changes in body temperature, triggering these waves of heat as it tries to cool you down. ⸻ 2. Night Sweats – Hot Flashes in Disguise Night sweats are basically hot flashes’ disruptive cousin. They happen during sleep—and they are rude. You wake up soaked, cold, and irritated. Your bedding feels like it’s been through spin cycle. You’re exhausted and cranky. Besides being uncomfortable, night sweats can wreak havoc on your sleep quality—and we all know that poor sleep magnifies everything from cravings to mood swings to motivation. ⸻ 3. Sleep Disturbances – Not Just “I’m Getting Older” Hormones like estrogen and progesterone play a role in regulating sleep cycles. As they decline, you might find yourself: • Struggling to fall asleep • Waking up frequently • Waking too early and not getting back to sleep Even if you’re not experiencing full-blown insomnia, poor sleep becomes a domino that topples other parts of your wellbeing—energy, clarity, focus, patience (especially with family!), and appetite regulation. ⸻ So… What Can You Do? Understanding that these symptoms are normal (though not necessarily something to suffer through) is step one. You’re not losing your mind. You’re not being dramatic. Your body is recalibrating. Here’s what helps: • Exercise: Movement, especially resistance training and walking, supports hormone balance and sleep. • Cooling tools: Think layers, fans, breathable fabrics, and even cooling pillows. • Sleep hygiene: Keep your room dark, cool, and screen-free before bed. • Nutritional support: Magnesium, phytoestrogens, and protein-rich foods can support better sleep and hormonal regulation. • Talk to someone: Whether it’s a coach (like me!), a GP, or a menopause specialist, you don’t have to figure this out alone. ⸻ The Bottom Line Midlife is not the end—it’s a recalibration. And these symptoms? They’re not signs of weakness or aging—they’re signs your body is adapting. It’s powerful. It’s natural. And with the right support, it’s manageable. You’re not broken. You’re just shifting gears. And you’ve got this. Let me know—what symptom has surprised you most in this phase? And what’s helped you navigate it? Stay fierce, Nikki x
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